Episode 46

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20th Dec 2024

Six Tales of Christmas | Poor Mistletoe



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How can a scrappy sprig of mistletoe change a community's perspective on poverty? Join Johan Heinrichs as he shares the heartwarming tale of the "Poor Mistletoe," a magical piece of greenery that appears in the most unexpected places, prompting people to notice and care for those often overlooked. As the mistletoe sways above neighborhoods in need, it inspires acts of kindness and ignites a community-wide transformation. Discover how a simple kiss blown in its direction can help kiss poverty goodbye and bring people closer together this Christmas season.

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Transcript
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This is Journey with Care, the official podcast of Care

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Impact. Johan here, and today, I will be your

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guide. Welcome to the special series of Care Impact

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Christmas, where we celebrate the joy of the Christmas season.

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As the snow falls outside and the warmth of the holiday spirit fills

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our hearts, we invite you to gather your closest loved ones,

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your kids, grandkids, friends, or family. Get cozy

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by the fire or snuggle up with a blanket and a cup of hot cocoa

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and get ready for something truly special. Today, we invite

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you to journey with us through a series of short stories that capture the

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essence of Christmas. These tales are filled with

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warmth, care, and loving generosity.

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So take a sip of that rich hot cocoa, nestle into your

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favorite spot, and let the glow of the firelight or simply of your

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Bluetooth speaker bring our stories to life.

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Welcome back to 6 Tales of Christmas. Pucker up

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because today we're gonna get up close and personal with a mistletoe.

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This isn't just any ordinary sappy mistletoe you'd find in a Hallmark

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Christmas special, the kind that makes people blush or lean in for

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romance. Oh, no. This mistletoe has a different

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calling. It loves to hang out above people and places that are

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experiencing poverty. It's the story of the poor mistletoe,

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a scrappy little sprig that made people squirm, but ultimately

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helps community kiss poverty goodbye. So hang up your

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stockings, grab some cocoa, and let's dive into this

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unexpected Christmas tale.

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There it was, the mistletoe. It wasn't like

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the glossy curated decorations you'd find in a shop window

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or festive Instagram photos. Its rough edges and

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berries caught the attention of bypassers in places no one

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expected it, like in neighborhoods that people loved to avoid

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or in ordinary looking homes people would never have noticed

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and lineups where people were losing hope for better outcomes.

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The poor mistletoe was even spotted in the doorways of

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churches, making people scratch their heads.

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Oh, hey there. Yep. I see you. Come

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on. Step right under here. Blow a

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kiss. Just one and watch what happens. It's

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not so scary. I promise. People avoided

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poor mistletoe like the plague. Who wants to stand under a

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sprig of mistletoe that talks to you, especially when it's dangling over

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places so uncomfortable, like poverty? Make

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poverty go away, they demanded of the mayor. You should do a

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better job at alleviating family crisis. They snided to social

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services. Crack down on crime, they insisted to

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the police. But every now and then, someone would pause,

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someone brave enough or curious enough to stop and listen.

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That's where our story begins.

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Mistletoe wasn't one for prime locations. No

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cozy fireplaces. No grand entryways.

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No idyllic scenes fit for a Christmas card.

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Instead, it showed up where no one wanted to be,

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places people crossed the street to avoid. Take, for example,

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the neighborhood by the tracks. You know the one, the

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street that people locked their car doors when driving through to a more affluent part

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of the city, boarded up windows, graffiti on the walls,

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and a reputation in the media for crime. There,

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above a myriad of power lines by a pair of dangling shoes,

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in the heart of this neighborhood hung the mistletoe, swaying in the

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cold December wind. Hey there. Shouting out to

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the family in the SUV who is anxiously waiting the red light.

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I know I'm not what you were looking for, but how about you

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pause for just a second? Blow a kiss.

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You'll be surprised at what can happen. The family nervously

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looked at each other, took a deep breath, and at the count of

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3, they blew a kiss to the mistletoe, just as

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they were invited to do, and something strange began to happen.

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No, the graffiti didn't vanish, nor did the dangling shoes,

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nor the signs of poverty all around them. But, suddenly, their

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eyes could see things that they would have never before noticed. They noticed

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the resilience of the elder lady warming in the bus shelter with her

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grandkids and the creativity of youth who had painted to

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express themselves and the compassionate expressions of

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pedestrians as they seemed to really know each other.

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Then the oddest thing happened as this family in the SUV pulled to the side

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of the road. Their cell phones were getting notifications

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saying that youth over there is aging out of the foster care system

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and is needing a couch and people he can count

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on. That grandma you see in the bus shelter unexpectedly took in her

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grandkids and needs beds and a caring community to wrap around

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them. Those pedestrians,

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they each have stories. Each have incredible gifts and

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abilities. Some of them have been trying to get a job.

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Others are recovering from illness. Others are exhausted because they

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are taking care of so many of their neighbors. Would you like to

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help? It was a big orange button on the

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bottom of the notification, the one that invited a

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response that seems to linger the loudest in that

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quiet SUV. The button read, yes,

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I can help.

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How had they not noticed these opportunities to care for people in their own

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city? These requests for compassion each seemed

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very unique, as unique as the people they saw around them,

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like they came from the individuals themselves. What was

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happening? The dangling mistletoe gave a little twinkle

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as the family dashed off to the mall to respond to some of the requests.

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We'll be back. They waved. But this time, they'd come back

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as good neighbors.

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A small group was out caroling in a quaint and beautiful old neighborhood.

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The snow sat so perfectly on the trees. Many homes were

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warmly decorated with lights and wreaths and trees in their front

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window. It felt like walking through a Christmas card.

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The joyful carolers were about to cheer up the next beautifully decorated

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home when the poor mistletoe caught the attention from a

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dimly lit home right beside them. Hey there.

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Shouting out to the carolers. Yoo hoo. Over

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here. Jostling its little leaves and berries.

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The jovial singer squinted through the darkness, took a few

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steps closer, and were shocked to see the mistletoe is talking

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to them. I know. I'm not hanging out where

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you expect to see Christmas cheer. But how about you come closer,

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blow a kiss? You'll be surprised at what can happen.

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To be honest, they hadn't even noticed the plain house that they were

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just passing. They weren't trying to ignore it, but it was just one

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of those homes that was, well, ignorable. They

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glanced at each other nervously, blew a kiss at the mistletoe,

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and something strange began to happen. No, the house

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didn't suddenly sparkle with twinkling lights or decorations,

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but suddenly their eyes could see things they would have never noticed

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before. They noticed many footprints leading to this

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door, small and large, and aromatic,

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mouth watering, foreign smells of spices. They can

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hear laughter and weeping, conversations in a

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language the Kaelers could not decipher. Then the honest

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thing happened as these Kaelers came closer.

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Their cell phones were getting notifications saying, this

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family has come through war and famine, and they're starting life

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again in your neighborhood. They have things to teach you and

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stories that will change you and a deep need for community.

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They are sleeping on the floor. Do you have beds? The

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kids are struggling to keep up with school. Will you tutor them?

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Dad unexpectedly was laid off and has no means to pay for a

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bus pass to find another job. Will you support his efforts?

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It was the big orange button on the bottom of their notifications,

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the one that invited a response. It seems

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to linger the loudest in a hushed group of carolers.

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The button read, yes, I can help.

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How had they not noticed this home before? These requests for

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compassion each seemed very unique, as unique as the people

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who were in the home. What was happening? The

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dangling mistletoe gave a little twinkle as the

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Kailers excitedly chose which request they were meant to respond

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to. We'll be back. They waved, but this time they'd

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come back as good neighbors.

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In the heart of the city stood a sturdy, tall, old building

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with floor upon floor of offices and waiting rooms, filled

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with disgruntled and sad clients who were hanging on by a

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thread. The first floor was a medical office filled with

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people in pain waiting desperately for more help than the

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medical system could manage. The second floor was an employment

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office filled with people who had lost their jobs and were struggling

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with practical barriers to gainful employment. The third

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floor was a child and family social services office, and

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oh, the heart wrenching stories that filled those cubicles

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as families were struggling to find their way back home. So many of

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these crises was due to poverty. If

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only, then maybe their stories could have a more

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hopeful outcome. The clients in the building weren't the only ones

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feeling the disparity. The staff worked tirelessly to

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do what they could, some burning out, others growing

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more jaded, and others preparing their resignation letters

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because of the weight of it all seemed just too much for them to

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handle on their own. But this Christmas was different.

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This Christmas, the poor mistletoe perched itself up in the

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elevator of this tall, old building. It would go up and

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down, up and down these floors like a faithful companion to

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weary workers and discouraged clients. Hey

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there. Shouting out to each elevator crowd.

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Yoo hoo. Over here. Jostling its little leaves and

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berries. The medical assistant gave a startling glance.

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A mom who had just said goodbye to her kids on the 3rd floor wiped

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her tears to notice the green cluster too. And the

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newcomer man who had just lost his job at the factory and wasn't

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able to pay for his family's rent unfurrowed his brow

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to notice this phenomenon too. Everyone who worked in this

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building and those who had the misfortune of needing their services

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were shocked to see the mistletoe was talking to them.

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I know I'm not hanging out where you'd expect all the Christmas

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cheer, and this is hardly a place to feel festive. But

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blow a kiss in my direction and give me a chance. You'll

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be surprised at what can happen.

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1 after another, people would quietly and discreetly lift an open

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palm to their quivering chin and give whatever breath they had to

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exhale with, and something strange began to happen.

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No. None of their challenging workspaces or personal crisis suddenly

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changed. But the workers suddenly noticed a new app on their

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phone, and clients noticed community wrapping around them

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with just the right support they needed. All

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the floors began to buzz with excitement. And as they all began

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to get curious about this new technology, someone showed the workers

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how they could safely advocate for their clients in ways above and

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beyond what they can currently provide. With this

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new app, the workers would enter needs in with their clients.

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And suddenly, people all across the town, many from churches,

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others from businesses, began to come out of the woodwork.

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People did wanna help. They just didn't know how.

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These office staff were not alone. They were people willing to

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learn to be good neighbors. How would local social

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services and churches and businesses not work together like this

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before? It was obvious that everybody gained from working better

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together. People had been using apps to order

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food and get rides, but now they had a way of

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advocating and caring for each other. The dangling mistletoe gave

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a little twinkle as the last of the workers and clients

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left the building late that Christmas Eve. We'll be back,

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they waved. But this time, they'd have the support of

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good neighbors.

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And, finally, the mistletoe found himself in many churches,

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not above the altar or the nativity scene, but over the doorways

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and sanctuaries and coffee bars and, well,

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pretty much everywhere where people found themselves hidden in plain

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sight to each other. A pastor who caught up with the news of the

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poor mistletoe phenomenon around town was startled to see the

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green festive cluster dangling all around his church

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on Christmas morning. Good morning, pastor. Welcome the

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mistletoe, relaxing its little leaves and berries, trying to

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adjust his expression to mirror the sobering look on the man's

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face. You look sudden, but not that surprised to see

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me. The foyer was crowded with people dressed in their holiday

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best. There were treats for the children and the coffee bar

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was buzzing with friendly chatter. Greeters welcomed new

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people and the place was just so well decorated for the many

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holiday programs the church ran every year. Yet amidst all the hustle and

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bustle, the poor mistletoe's words to the pastor seemed to

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muffle all the commotion around them. I know, pastor. I'm not exactly

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what you wanted to see hanging around your congregation, but I do have some good

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news. The pastor had been feeling it for a while. Every

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Sunday morning, people would fill the place up with friendly smiles and shouts

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of hallelujah. But outside those hours, it felt

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hollow. What could they do? The relationships were

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surface level and no one really knew how to address the deeper needs of

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each other or those in the community. Go ahead, pastor,

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encouraged the mistletoe. Kiss poverty goodbye. You'll be

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surprised at what can happen. He glanced up nervously to the poor

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mistletoe, overthinking this weird phenomenon on this crowded

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Christmas morning, and with a sincere whisper,

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Iblua, Jesus, help.

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Something strange began to happen. No, the church didn't

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suddenly become a safe place for deep relationships or compassion

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for others, But the oddest thing happened. People

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began getting notifications of specific ways they can support each

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other and those in the community they would have never known of before.

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It wasn't just the pastor or usual leaders who got these notifications.

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The whole church was getting invited to find meaningful ways to respond.

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And as they began to click the big orange button on the bottom of their

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notifications, the one that said, yes, I can help,

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More and more of the church members were rescued from their own relational

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poverty, learning how to love their neighbors in meaningful

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ways. It's true. The church needed

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support in understanding poverty better and how to support others through

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their traumas. They did squirm as they were faced with their own

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prejudices and blind spots. Church became

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messier. But what really stands out is how vibrant and

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vulnerable people became. People were learning to get

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comfortable with discomfort, helping their community as they learned to

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work with God and others. The mistletoe gave a little

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twinkle as the congregation left the building. We'll be

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back, they waved. But next time they'd come back

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as good neighbors, knowing their greatest opportunities

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were in caring for others in the community.

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So this Christmas, when you see mistletoe, take a moment

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to rethink how you can help kiss poverty goodbye.

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This Christmas, you can help kiss poverty goodbye with the gift of

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mistletoe. Check out our fun gift giving catalog at careimpactchristmas.com

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to help more communities care better together through our care portal

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care sharing technology. The care portal is already connecting

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churches, agencies, non profits, and businesses to

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coordinate meaningful wraparound care for those who need it most.

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Imagine more people getting notifications of opportunities right in their

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neighborhoods to support those who otherwise would go unnoticed.

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People wanna care and people are craving for community. And now with

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care portal technology, we're helping take the guesswork out of that

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compassion. Did you know that over 3,000 people have

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already been served so far? A church member commented,

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not only was my church able to support this young mom and newborn in a

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critical time, I've also gained a new neighbor. I

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literally can see her apartment from my kitchen window. I could have

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missed this. I listened to the response of a social worker who

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entered a need into the care portal and had a local church quickly

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respond. She said this, everyone was so generous

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and supportive, providing what this family needed the most after

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the fire. They went above and beyond. Thank you.

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The care portal makes it so efficient to advocate for the right

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kinds of help. So this is your mistletoe moment.

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This technology is working, and we need your help to

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expand our services to more cities across Canada and to

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under resourced nonprofits and churches who have the most

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amazing connections already with those in need and who would benefit from

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tapping into a network of churches and businesses and people who wanna

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care. But they just need that notification on their phone with

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the big orange button that says, yes, I can help.

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Help kiss poverty goodbye by gifting your loved ones with

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mistletoe. Go to caring packed christmasdot com for fun

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ways to make a serious difference.

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