Episode 17

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4th Feb 2026

Still Here, Because Someone Showed Up | Rosemary Ellis

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Description

How do you reach someone who’s been let down so many times that hope feels far away?

This conversation turns toward the heart of presence, listening as Rosemary Ellis shares her journey through childhood trauma, addiction, and the long road to healing. Around shared stories and gentle questions, we hear how care often looks like persistence—a neighbour who brings a sandwich, a bus that offers warmth on cold nights, or a friend who makes space for honesty. There’s no tidy solution, just the steady impact of showing up in messy, uncertain places and believing for change when it feels impossible. The table is open, and this is a story for anyone who wonders if simply being there might matter more than we think.

Time Stamps

03:21 "Safe Haven for Inner-City Youth"

06:35 "Healing After Childhood Trauma"

10:08 "Acts of Kindness on Weekends"

14:40 Reaching the Lost Through Faith

17:18 "Simply Showing Up to Love"

22:22 "Reconciliation and Victimization in Churches"

24:08 "Humility, Trauma, and Addiction"

28:19 "Neighborly: Caring That Matters"

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Inner City Youth Alive: https://icya.ca

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Transcript
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This episode includes discussion of childhood sexual abuse,

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exploitation, and addiction, shared as part of a story of

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healing and hope. Listener discretion is advised. Please take care

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of yourself while listening. If he

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did it for me, he can do it for them. There are people dying.

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I'm blessed to be here. I say it all the time. And I'm not

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just saying it. I'm humbled because I shouldn't even be

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alive, yet I am.

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Every one of us has a story about someone who showed up when it mattered

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most. I'm Johan, and this is Neighbourly, a

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podcast about the ordinary ways people show extraordinary care.

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Every other week, Shannon Steves sits down with someone who's

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lived that out. Real stories of faith, kindness,

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and community in action. So grab your coffee and let's

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join Shannon at the table.

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Okay. Well, good morning, Rosemary. I am so

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excited just to be on the podcast with you today.

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We've known each other for not super long, but you've just

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been somebody that, as I've gotten to know you, has encouraged

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and inspired me. And I'm really excited just for you to

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be on and. And to share some of your testimony and the way

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God has worked in your life. So thank you for being here

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today. Thank you for having me, Shannon. Yeah. Before

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we dive into your story, we always start off with an

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icebreaker question of who was a neighbor that

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you'll never forget, good or bad?

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Okay. What first came to mind was

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a couple that would constantly throw their garbage over to

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my yard, and we're talking all sorts of

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garbage. Oh, my. So that was hard. That was

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many, many years ago. And it just stuck with me because it didn't matter

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what I did, how I. You know, I. And I just got to the point

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where I ignored it. Right. Did you try to talk to them and, like, ask

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them why they're doing this? I did. I did. But

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I also wasn't living my best life at that time,

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so it came to a point where I was just, you know, I. I didn't

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care because I didn't want to get into it. So. Yeah. Oh, that is. That

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is memorable. It was. It is memorable.

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Not something you forget. Before we really get into things, can you just

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share a little bit about your life right now and just the different

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ways you're involved in community? Yeah.

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Okay. So I. I am, number one. I

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am a child of God. I am a mother to four children.

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Well, five, actually. I'm also a foster parent, so I'm able

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to open up my heart and my home

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in a different capacity. But it's still being the same. Right. But

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it does look different. I am also, I have a role

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here at Inner City Youth Alive with the

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community ministry team. For the last three years. I'm working my

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third year here now I'm out in the community. I go out

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into the thick of it. There is some scheduled things I do,

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but for the most part, one day can look very different from

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the next. Yeah. And for those who don't know, can

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you just tell us a little bit, what is inner city Youth Alive? What do

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you guys do there? Yeah. So how I would explain it in my own

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words is it is a lighthouse in the middle of the North End. There's

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several little areas and pockets of inner city Youth Alive. It started

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off primarily for youth and it still is. We have

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wonderful drop in staff from Monday to Thursday where our

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children in this community are able to come to drop in,

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feel safe. And also, I don't know a lot about it because I don't work

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in that area, but from what I know, there's also the option of

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it's called talk time, which they're able to learn about the Lord

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should they choose to. Now if the, if the children don't choose to,

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they're not told to leave. So it's, it is number one, it's a safe place

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for our children in this community. And then, yeah, there's

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different projects going on. We have Step Up Construction

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that actually go out into the community and have contracts with people,

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some bigger city companies and some smaller,

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just private households. The group at Step up actually

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just did my backsplash in my kitchen. Wow,

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super. I'm super blessed. And like,

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truthfully, what would have been like a $3,000 job

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was a gift. And like, I just want to praise

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and just lift up Step Up Construction. And if anybody's listening

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and they know or they don't know of Step Up Construction,

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please look us up. And there's always room for contracts and they're

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looking for work. So. Yeah, that's so awesome. I

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met a couple weeks ago, Tom. Is he the one who oversees

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Step Up? Yes. Yeah. And I was like, this is so cool.

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As you know, know a social enterprise in the community,

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being able to, you know, employ youth is kind of what he was sharing

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or youth that are, are growing into adults and that work experience

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and that just like relationship. That's so huge. It

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is so huge. I didn't speak a lot about community ministry, so

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I'll just quickly talk about that. Yeah. There's four of us that have

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that role and it looks different for all four, but for me,

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I went into it not knowing again what

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one day is going to look like. But the Lord has definitely set in my

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path a specific ministry, and that is to

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sit and to give a hand of help to

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women who are struggling with addiction, not just addiction,

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struggling within the system of cfs. Some real

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huge concerns I'm able to advocate in court.

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I'm not a lawyer, obviously, I'm not a, you know,

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counselor, but God just really has me building

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relationships with women who trust me. And that's huge because

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trust is really hard for. For a lot of our. A lot of our

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families. So. Yeah. Wow. Thank you for sharing that.

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And I. I would imagine that a huge part of that trust

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comes from, you know, some of your own lived experience in being able

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to truly relate. Right. And understand some of what

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they're going through. Yeah. Can you, I guess, kind of going back

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to a little bit of just your journey, and you mentioned a

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previous time. You know, where does it start for you, I guess as

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a youth or a young adult with your story? Well,

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number one, I'm a product of a broken home. So I

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had just been living with my mom,

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and respectfully speaking, my mom and my biological

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dad and my stepdad, we've all found healing throughout our relationship.

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But at the end of the day, I suffered. I went through a lot of

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abuse, sexual abuse at the hands of my

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uncle, actually. And I had that

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because my innocence was taken from me, which we see a lot

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with families with children. What happens then is

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we lose our sense of identity before we even get to know who we are.

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So that's what happened to me and ended up going out onto

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the streets. I did spend some time in cfs, so I was.

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And forgive me if I jump around a bit, but what happened with me is

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I didn't open up about the abuse until a little later on. And when I

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did, I wasn't believed. And we hear a lot of that, too. Children are just

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not believed. And there's nothing worse than

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finding the courage to speak up only to be shut

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down. So when that happened, I kind of just gave

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up. And what that looked like for me was, okay,

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I. And I am going to be raw here. When I talk, I'm just going

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to go out. And I was introduced to people that taught me how

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to do things such as stand on the corner and prostitute,

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and that's exactly what I did. I was 12. I was 12

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when I took my first crack. Hoot. So I started to

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smoke crack at 12 that obviously

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caused a lot of

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confusion. And I

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went on my years from 12 to,

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I want to say 20, 21, smoking crack throughout those years,

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rather than staying stuck in this part, I just want to say

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that I got out of it. Praise be to God, I got out of it.

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But I didn't just get out of it and find healing so fast.

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So the testimony continues. I had to learn how to

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forgive. I had to learn who I was. I

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actually had to learn how to think again because

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a lot of cognitive stuff happened right when you're.

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When you're 12 and your frontal lobe is still growing and you're smoking

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hard drugs, it was affected. So, yeah, I

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was getting to know myself at 21 years old, which isn't

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horrible. So essentially I got out of it

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a lot earlier than a lot of the people that I was out with.

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They're either rest in peace, like they're either passed away

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or still out there or in jail. Wow. Thank you

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for sharing that and being raw and honest about

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what you've walked through. And I'm just honored to sit

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hear that story. That's incredible what you've been

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through. But like you alluded to, there have been a time

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or times where God met you. Can you talk to us

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a little bit about what that has looked like and how what those

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turning points were, I guess, in your life? Yes,

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well, I actually was approached.

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So through the years of me being on the streets and back then, it

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was so prominent. We would always be on the corners. Right. Nowadays you

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don't really see it. It's all online, it's hidden. But through

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those years, there was a bus called the Love Lives Here bus. And

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the ministry is still alive and well, but they have a trailer. Back

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then, on the weekends they would drive around and they

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would. They would pursue us gently. Okay.

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And so this is more than a story, but this is actually something

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that when I. When I talk about, I'm just reminded of

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God's goodness and how important we as his

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hands and feet are. Because if

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that woman, I don't remember her name, didn't ever really

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see her again, but if she wouldn't have got off of the bus.

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So anyways, what they did was they would park the bus,

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cold weather, they'd bring hot chocolate, chili, whatever, to

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the corners, to where we would stand, and they would

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try to talk to us. Wow. So that's just kind of like a little bit

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of what that looked like. Now, this one particular weekend,

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I was upset, I was angry. I wasn't getting picked up the johns were driving

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around, and they were just being jerks. And so this

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one lady, she was pursuing me, right? And

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I kept telling her to f off, like, leave me alone,

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lady. Like, you're ruining, you know, whatever business I thought I had.

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And again, I'm talking just really raw. I'm not glorifying it.

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So I'm thinking to myself, like, leave me alone. And I told her,

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right? I was. I was just rude. I was mean. I was. I was not

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thinking about her. I was thinking about myself. But just

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as Christ pursues us, she.

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She stood back like she was, you know, at. You know,

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she. I could tell she was using some discernment, now that I look back.

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But she would come back. She would come back. Are you ready for prayer? Can

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we pray or not even that. Like, can you. You want a

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sandwich? So this one particular time,

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back to that time, I said, fine. Like, I'll take a

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sandwich. She's like, are you cold? And

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so I went on the bus, and they prayed for me. And so

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when they were praying for me, I wish I could say that after

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that night, I didn't ever look back. That's not often the

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situation. But that was a seed planted.

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And so I felt different.

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And it was like my mind, right, because the battle always starts

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in the mind. My mind started to think things. I started to

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have different thoughts, like, oh, these people actually took their

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time to pray with me. And that prayer just felt good.

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And it was more than just a feeling. It was in my core. That

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was one of the times that the Lord met me through somebody else.

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I've also had a radical encounter with the Holy

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Spirit. And so that particular time was just

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so beautiful. And several years after,

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I actually volunteered on that same bus, and

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for about three or four years, I would volunteer, I got to know Heather

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Barefoot. She's actually the director of Love Lives Here Ministry

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and her husband Ted, and the people who drove the bus. Now, what

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they did was each encounter

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that they would make with us girls on the street, they would document

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it. They would write it down. So I was able to go back

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after I got, like. Got to know them. They took me

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back to the late 1990s, slash, early

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2000s, and I was able to read, like, three

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recordings of when they would talk to me and how they

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would pray behind the scenes.

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Like, come on, right? How. How

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do we. How do we deny that the Lord isn't real?

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Wow. If that's not an encouragement to people, like,

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I don't know what is. Because you said it. He's like, it wasn't a

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light switch after that first, first, you know, prayer, that first encounter,

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it was seeds being planted over time

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and, you know, someone saying, yes, being obedient to what

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God had called them to do and asked them to do, and just show up

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on the bus and now,

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like, look at what he's done in your life since then. It's

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unbelievable. It is, yeah. We could end it there and be

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okay, but I have more questions. Okay, so

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you, you mentioned serving on with that ministry, with that team

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on the bus. How has, you know, what you've been through and walked through, then

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connected into wanting to continue serving

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community? Like, how did it go from that to then kind of here, where you're

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at now? Well, the more I get closer

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to the Lord, which is a daily thing, the more I

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see there are people dying physically, spiritually,

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the most. And how can I.

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How can I live out my life to glorify God

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if I don't choose to try to reach the lost?

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Because if he did it for me, he will do it

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for you or whoever's listening or whoever's out there right

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now. If. If he did it for me, he can do it for them, he

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can do it for. And we're not even just talking about addicts. We're talking about

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people who may have bondage in other ways.

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Any kind of idol in your life. There are people dying.

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And so, yeah, I. I'm

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blessed to be here. I say it all the time. And I'm not just saying

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it. I'm humbled because I shouldn't even be alive

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yet I am. Yeah. How did you

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get to icya? Because I know

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there's significance in, like, the neighborhood that you're physically

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in through work. And part of your story. How did you get

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there? So for the last 15.

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15 years, I worked in social services, right.

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So I was in group homes and I was sitting at work,

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looked at, you know, actually somebody mentioned inner city

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youth alive at church not too long before I. I was

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online and I happened to just come across the job

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posting. And so I applied not too long

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after. And it was actually a long process. Like, I didn't just get hired. They

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interviewed me once, interviewed me twice, interviewed me a third

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time. Now. The thing about ICY is I used to live in this

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area, the North End. I would walk by this

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building and wonder what it was. I didn't

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ever talk to anybody, but I would walk by literally on my way to the

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street corner. And so. Wow, right?

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So here I am, and I'm still wowed. I'm still wowed at

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how now I'm on the other side, not because

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I'm better, but because now there's

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that scripture that comes to mind. We are overcome by the blood of the lamb

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and the word of our testimony. So he needs, he needs to use us.

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He wants to use us. And so, yeah, so that's what happened. So I

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got hired September 2022. It was

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just six months after actually, so it wasn't. Oh, I

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applied and I got it. I guess you are in a space

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where you're quite literally walking with people who are

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going through some stuff, going through challenges, like you said,

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addiction and whatnot. I think sometimes

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we as people can

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overcomplicate what it means to just love

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people and serve people. Like, I think sometimes we think we

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need to have all this experience and training and do all this stuff.

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And don't get me wrong, training's great, but we don't have to have a

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degree to go and love people. We don't have to

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have had a five year career doing xyz. Like,

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we just have to show up. Right. And I guess, can you speak to what

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that is like? Not to say you don't have experience, but to the

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ordinary person who maybe doesn't know how

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to just say yes to what God is or maybe God's putting something

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on their heart. Like what it. Like what would you, I guess, nudge them

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towards if they're in that place of like, I don't know if I

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really can. I don't know if I really can love that way. Like, what would

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you tell them? Yeah. So because

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God qualifies us to do his work,

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Right. Paul talks about it a lot in the New Testament.

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It's not supposed to be rainbows and butterflies either. Yeah, there's going to be some,

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some hard times. There's going to be some times where. And there are

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a lot of times in my life, especially now, the last

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three years, I've had more battle than ever. But that actually

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means I'm on the right, I'm on the right track,

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not because God wants me to suffer, but because

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we do have an enemy. And so things pop up.

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But yes, I would say to those that might

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be feeling like they have something to give, that they

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want to help because we all should be right. That's why we're

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called the church. We're called the body for a reason.

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And none of us are going to be called to do the same thing.

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But I would just say trust in the Lord. Back to What I was saying,

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trust in the Lord. Lean on his understanding, not

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your own. Yeah, yeah, that's so

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good. And you already mentioned where I wanted to kind

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of ask more about was the church. Where does the church

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fit into all this? I know you see a lot of

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needs and, you know, people are going through things and they need

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just practical support sometimes or just, you know,

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friendship. Where do you see the church fitting into

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serving the community? Or how do you see it, maybe is a better question.

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Well, I'm going to just speak from my heart, from

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what I see. And so just ahead of time,

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if there are people who may not like it or agree or disagree,

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that's fine. But thankfully I'm on the podcast, so.

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Right. I think that we

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have come a long way as a church,

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but not nearly far as we need to be.

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And so when we were talking about not too long ago about Care

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Portal and about how many churches in Winnipeg, so I know there are a couple

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more churches that have been added on. Right. But when

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we think about all the churches in this city,

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there's a lot. I don't know the exact number. I'm sure you probably know more.

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I think it's somewhere around 300 or so. Yeah. Right.

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Okay. Versus. So 300 churches

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versus how many are on the care portal? Yeah. 10 to

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12 or so. That's a concern. That's a concern. And I can say it because

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I don't work for Care Portal, so nobody can get mad at you guys.

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They can come at me. But I think that's Care

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Portal alone. But, like, in general, when I see a lot of

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the churches in this area, so in the inner city, just

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to make a positive turn, here they are involved. Right. So I also

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run a food bank out of my church. I'm not the only one who runs

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a food bank. We have food banks out of Living Word Temple

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just down the street. Springs Inner City. So we are

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making an effort for things like that. I do think that when it comes

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to basic understanding and relationship building,

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we really need more work. Yeah.

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And I think that's such a good point because it.

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I think I've talked about this with someone on a previous episode.

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It can be sometimes easy to, like, give stuff or do the things,

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but when it comes to, like sitting with somebody and just like being

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present in their story, that can be where we

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need some improvement as a, you know, as the church. And what

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do you think that could look like? I guess, based on what you see, what

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are some ways people in churches or just church in

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general Can. Can do better at that. Relational.

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Just caring for people. Well, I think,

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again, speaking for my home church, and

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hopefully it doesn't sound biased, but we

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do sit. We'll sit with people. I think that,

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number one, the second we think we have an us

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versus them mentality, we're already losing

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also because of this whole truth and reconciliation

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thing. I do think that the church,

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many churches do want to reconcile,

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but it's done in kind of

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still kind of keeping people victimized.

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And again, this is just my take. I'm not into,

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like, I'm not trying to speak for anybody else.

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I think that there's that part of trying to keep people victimized

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still in that victim state, as well as

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not educating ourselves enough about that. And what

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the residential schoolings did, what that really.

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What the impact really is. Yeah. So I think

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that there's like, different. It's like a different spectrum.

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It's from one extreme to the next, in my view.

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Yeah, that's, I think, really

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insightful to think about that us and them mentality.

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And, you know, you bring such a deep understanding of

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dignity, I think, in the way that you serve and the way you love

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people, I guess. What do you wish more people

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understood about those who are facing

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addiction or homelessness or some other significant

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crisis? Well, what

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my hope would be and what my prayer

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is, is. And we're, I guess we're talking more. I'm.

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I'm speaking more to believers, is

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that we, number one, get off of our high horse.

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And I mean that out of love, because I've been on a high

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horse too, a few times, and I've been knocked down, I've been humbled.

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And I think when we see the big picture,

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where trauma comes, what trauma causes, it looks different

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for everybody. And again, like I said earlier, addiction

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doesn't just mean drugs and alcohol. Addiction's living up in

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the suburbs with lots of money that, you know,

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people are gambling, people are addicted to pornography.

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We're talking about rich people as well. And so when we

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have an understanding that it's also us

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and it just looks different, then maybe they could

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see an addict on the street or somebody homeless and be like, wow,

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there's really not much of a difference between the two of us. Right. Yeah.

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That's so good. We could talk a lot about addiction too. But it's

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that the problem, you know, the stuff we see, the drugs or

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the alcohol or the pornography or whatever, the stuff, that's not

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really the issue. It's deeper within and

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there's likely trauma there and some wounding and. And healing.

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That really is needing to happen. And I think when we

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humanize people and really, truly just see someone,

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it's like, oh, yeah, you know, I. I see you in

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me, too. And like, I'm. I'm. I just want to be here,

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wrap it up here towards the end. I guess

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one question I have for you is when things feel

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heavy in work or in life, I guess, what gives

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you hope for community? What. What keeps you

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going? Okay, what keeps me going?

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Seeing women who are choosing to show up

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for themselves every day, no matter what that looks like. But

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the. The successes, the victories that come out of that, and

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seeing families reunited like children being brought

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back to their families. I have a specific

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friend, longtime friend, actually, who just got through

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treatment. She's doing great. She is.

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She's choosing to get through all that stuff. We were just talking about trauma. She's

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choosing to dig at those roots of trauma so that

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she can leave a better legacy for her children. And it

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shows, right? There's. There's evidence of God in her

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life. She sees it. She acknowledges it, and. And

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she knows. She also knows that that doesn't mean things are going to be perfect,

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but just to see that light switch go

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on in her spirit, that's

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encouraging. So, yeah, it's not all bad.

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Yeah. Yeah. Is there anything that

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you feel it's on your heart to share that I haven't given you the opportunity

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to say yet? Anything. You just feel

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what to say? Well, I said a lot. I think that.

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Yeah, I'm just thankful. I'm thankful that you thought of me to bring me

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on. And again, anytime I can share

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what God has done in my life and I can actually

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speak about how it happened or whatnot,

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I pray that that gives hope to people who

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knows where you're at in your life. But, yeah, just. Just to encourage people who

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are listening that God is alive and

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he's real. He's alive and he. He wants to move in our lives.

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It's beautiful. Rosemary, your story is such a

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reminder that extraordinary care often looks like just

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showing up, loving people, and just being

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faithful to where God has placed you. And so thank you.

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Thank you for being here and thank you for sharing your story. Thank you. Thank

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you so much. The stories we share here remind us

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that care doesn't have to be perfect to be powerful.

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It just has to be present. Neighbourly is an initiative of

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Care Impact, a Canadian charity equipping churches,

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agencies, and communities with tech and training to care better

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together. Visit CareImpact CA or to find out more

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I'm Johan. Thanks for listening and keep being the kind of

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neighbor someone will never forget in a good way.

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Turning over tables

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of building up the bridges between

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the stones of these Turning over

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tables Breaking off chains

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When I see you in a stranger I'm no

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longer a slave

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table Tearing down walls

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Building up the bridges between

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us all.

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Neighbourly
Equipping communities and the Church to love neighbours well
Neighbourly is a warm, story-driven podcast hosted by Shannon Steeves. Every two weeks, Shannon sits down with a guest to share honest stories of ordinary people offering extraordinary care.
Each episode also includes a short Neighbourly Headlines reflection, highlighting a Canadian story of neighbours showing up in meaningful ways.
You’ll leave encouraged, grounded, and equipped with one simple step you can carry into your own life.
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