Episode 39

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Published on:

25th Oct 2024

Care Journey | Rethinking Poverty



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Description

What does it truly mean to understand poverty from a human perspective?

This conversation with Marlo Fox, Executive Director of Think Tank, delves into the transformative power of the Cost of Poverty Experience (COPE) simulation, designed to enlighten participants on the lived realities of families facing poverty.

We will explore how COPE fosters empathy, challenges preconceived notions, and promotes collective action. The discussion highlights the significant roles of community and churches in poverty alleviation, advocating for relational approaches over transactional interactions. As COPE expands globally, including its recent reach into Canada, Marlo and the hosts emphasize the value of building meaningful, human-centred connections, particularly through tools like CarePortal. They also outline the mission of Think Tank, encouraging churches to enhance their community impact by focusing on relationships rather than programs. Tune in for insights on reshaping our understanding of poverty and exploring practical steps for community engagement.

Time Stamps

[03:15] Founded think tank to address poverty holistically.

[08:05] Realized others' struggles; importance of community awareness.

[11:39] Rethink poverty focusing on human, relational approaches.

[16:25] CarePortal technology facilitates community care connections.

[18:38] "Cope simulates poverty, fosters community understanding."

[21:40] Bringing vulnerability and understanding to Canadian communities.

[25:51] Focus on building relationships within the community.

[28:18] Building relationships is key to making a difference.

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Think Tank: https://thinktank-inc.org/

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Transcript
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Imagine the whole church discovering their passion to care,

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one small group at a time.

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You're listening to this special podcast series, Care Journey,

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from the Journey with Care podcast.

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Fixing trying to fix things is different than lightening

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someone's load. So what what do friends do? We don't go around

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fixing each other. But we do think about how can I lighten somebody's load right

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now? Yes. It's not about erasing everything

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that's here that's contributing it in from an individual level, systemic level.

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That's a recipe for paralysis. But if we can start to say

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how can I lighten the load? Is there anything I can do to come alongside?

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Is there a way that I can listen and learn? Then what happens is

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my next step starts to be unveiled.

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Welcome to another episode of Journey with Care. We are in the midst of our

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Care Journey series. If you haven't listened to our previous episodes,

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this series is highlighting some of the

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topics key for Care Impact, and we're just giving you a taste

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here what our small group course is like. If you want to get more into

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and you can get on the waiting list there to make it part of your

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small group. Really encourage you to do that. We've had nothing but great

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feedback so far. Also, I wanna remind you that we have journey with

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prayer, a 5 minute devotional series to start off your week. That's on a separate

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feed, or you can find it at journey with care dot ca. You can get

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it early there on Friday, the same time this one releases. Otherwise, you get it

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Monday. So make sure you check that out. Today, we have a special

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guest on with us, Marlo Fox. But before we get into that

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conversation, I wanna remind you that we can only continue to produce great

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content because the generosity of our listeners, our donors

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of Care Impact. And if you wanna support our work in the community, if you

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wanna support the podcast, head over to journey with care dot c a,

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and there are some links you can click there to be able to support

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us and the work that we are doing in the community. Or you can just

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go to the show notes, and there's some links there as well. Wendy, you wanna

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introduce our guest? Absolutely. I'm delighted to

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introduce, our friend to Carry Impact, Marlo Fox. She

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comes from Ohio in the the USA and,

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works with an organization as the executive director of Think Tank.

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Welcome to the podcast. Thank you, Wendy. It's so good to be here with

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you. Can you tell us a little bit about Think Tank?

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We've really appreciated the work you've done, but tell us what a little bit

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more about it. Yes. So think tank just turned 18

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years old. I can't even believe it. I'm one of the cofounders

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of think tank and have had the joy of working

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with, teams all across the United States. So as you

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mentioned, Wendy, our work originated here in Southwest

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Ohio, and our mission is to equip groups to rethink

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poverty and to partner directly with people

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that are affected for change in community.

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And so, with that, my own journey started

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out previous to this role. I was, in social work. I worked

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in workforce development. So in that role, I,

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got to know people in my community that were

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struggling to get into the workforce and actually have a

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living wage job. And so I was working day in and day out

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with families, right here that were navigating poverty.

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And what I learned through that was, you know, our answer, certainly in the

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United States, is the answer to poverty is just get a job and make more

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money. And as I got more deeply acquainted,

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and involved in people's lives, you know, work's important,

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and that was very rewarding. We were designed to work, right,

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to create, to contribute to our community, to other people's lives, and

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yet there were, you know, numerous barriers, that people were encountering

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just to get into the workforce or stay in the workforce. And all of them

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was this kinda complex interconnected web to poverty. And so

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I had the privilege to be able to found think

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tank, with the idea that we needed to work more holistically rather

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than in our silos. That meant doing a lot of capacity

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building and equipping work with groups that were on the ground,

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interacting with people, navigating different aspects of poverty,

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and to work to be a convener to bring those, groups to be more

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effective in their work and to build solutions with people that were

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navigating poverty instead of to them or for them. And so we've been at this

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for 18 years, and I'm sure we'll talk about how that's evolved, but that's a

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little bit of our history. Yeah. And while I've sat in through some of your

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sessions and your curriculum and even as you've been creating some of the and

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been a guinea pig, and I just have really appreciated the content

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that you have delivered, your team has created.

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And what I find interesting is you're right. Like, when we think of

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poverty, we're thinking of how do we, problem solve for the

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people that are in poverty. What I've really

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appreciated about your team is that you're working with people

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that are in poverty saying, how do we build capacity

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for those who wanna care? And you're really building the capacity

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of not how to get a job in the sense, which there's places for that

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as well. There's a need for that. However, you're building capacity in the

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local church. You're building capacity in the local community. How do we

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respond? How do we interact with that? Because poverty affects us all,

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but we're just not all as vulnerable. But how do we contribute? How do we

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neighbor well? And, I've really appreciated that you're

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working with people and not just for them. You

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shared a little bit, Marlo, about what got you started

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in think tank and and why there was a need for this

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organization. But what led up to that

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beforehand, before you were working? What were those moments? You

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were having an ordinary life, but did you grow up

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desiring to to be in the space of poverty alleviation and capacity

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building, or were there these moments that got you there?

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Yeah. I appreciate that you said moments because I think for

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most of us, it's not a lightning bolt revelation. There are lots

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of things that happen in our lives that continue to

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build into our calling and reveal, truth in our lives. And so

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I think I would say the same was true for myself. I did

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not personally grow up in poverty, but I became

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well acquainted with poverty as a young adult. I married somebody

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that did grow up in poverty and then began working in this

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space. So I think that perhaps my journey

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is similar to others who have taken

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that road, maybe gone into a vocation wanting to help

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based on maybe certain faith callings or skills

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or or gifts and care. And then realizing

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as I got into it that I thought I could help, but,

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actually, I also got helped, if that makes sense. And

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so I think that was, again, a series of moments

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based on maybe some faulty or incomplete paradigms

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is that I feel like so often we see

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the responsibility for poverty alleviation setting on the

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shoulders of those who are in poverty, and it's,

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them that need to change. And very quickly,

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I realized, oh, I need to change. And this is an

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ongoing process and will be for the rest of my life, but I think

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there were a number of things along the road

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that contributed to those awakenings for me. Some

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real concrete story. Initially, when I get into workforce development,

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part of what we were doing, we were offering GED classes. So in the US,

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that's, the equivalent of a high school diploma if you drop out of school.

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And I actually came back from college. I had gone out of

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state, came back to my hometown. I was working in the school district

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where I grew up, and we had people coming to

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our GED class that I had grown up with. I had no idea they had

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dropped out of high school. And so this revelation of, like,

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wow. Was I in a tunnel? Like, how were these people

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invisible to me? You know? And so just

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that, just realizing my own maybe, isolation

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or my own focus on myself and how I needed to be alert

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to parts of my community that were invisible to me and the pain that was

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invisible to me. So just a number of things like that. The

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other thing, again, I was in the position as a social worker

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to help others, so I there was a power imbalance there. Right? I was the

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one that was supposed to have the answer as a young person. You

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know? And then I found myself in conversations with people that were

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my clients, and they were pouring into me. They were giving me some

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answers for things that were going on in my life. So this, like, this

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idea of, again, doing 4 or the helper has

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the answer solution to more relationships

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and mutuality, which is, I think, a much healthier place to

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be as helpers or as just people that wanna come

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alongside neighbors in good ways. So, yeah, it was a number of those things,

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Wendy, that have shaped me and and continue to shape me in how I think

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about this work. See, Marlo, this is why I love you. There's so many good

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nuggets there, and I hope our audience has paid attention to those. It's just

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so true, and it shows in the curriculum and

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the resources that you are producing that it is created with, and

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and the people going through poverty become our professors. They're actually

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contributing to the solutions. It is so much more complex than the

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individual's bank account. And you're right.

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Poverty is hidden in plain sight. We don't know what

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poverty looks like in the day to day, and I think the individualism

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and the privacy of people's, lives in

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our society contributes to that. It doesn't it doesn't

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alleviate poverty when we we sit in our silos. There's so

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much more than meets the eye. Let's talk a little bit of

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poverty. What are the things that you have learned? Surely, poverty is

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more. You've alluded to it. Is more than just not having money or

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a a job. What are the ways that we could all identify with

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areas of poverty that we might be even be impoverished and

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not realize? Yeah. I mean, I I do think

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that just the recognition that our our

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brains, I think, shut down to complexity a lot of times. We

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wanna make it about that one thing. And the deeper

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you get into learning about people's lives, there is a lot of

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complexity there, but I think at the core,

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we understand because we are in bodies navigating

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a real physical tangible world, and we have a

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spiritual dimension to us and a physical and emotional and a

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mental dimension to us, and, that that's true for all of

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us. And so I think when you look at our work, think tanks work,

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that's why we center it on the human impact of poverty so that we

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can take a human centered approach to alleviating

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poverty. Right? And so there are these very

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tangible, realities of physical

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needs. You know, we have housing insecurity and food insecurity

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and, you know, all these things are undergirded

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by economics. Right? But there are numerous

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things that keep us maybe from

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being economically stable. And so as I mentioned, when I was

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doing workforce development and I got involved in people's

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lives and and would help open up opportunities perhaps to

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affirm their gifts and to get into a job, there were those tangible

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things that we often think about, such as barriers like

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transportation, childcare, you know, housing, food, and security, and all those things

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come out and cope. But, also, what happens is

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this individualism you talk about, Wendy, and and even scarcity

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mentality that we carry around, I think that has created

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isolation that compound those factors. Right?

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And so there's an emotional dimension to that. There's

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trauma that comes into that. There, are a number of

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things that contribute to our well-being.

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And so as we look at rethinking poverty from

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our standpoint, it's really anchored on centering on the

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human impact and taking a relational approach. So no

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matter what issue you're gonna work on, I would say if we can

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be grounded in those things, how can I see this through a human

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lens, and what can I do to take a relational approach?

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The other thing I think we get ourselves into is we want a quick fix,

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and we oftentimes wanna step into

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poverty alleviation in very episodic ways, you know, or transactional ways. So, you know,

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hopefully, I I can challenge myself and we can challenge our listeners here, Wendy, that,

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you know, I think if more of us think about, like, where maybe is god

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calling me to make a longer term commitment,

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longer term relational commitment. Again, if we think about our human experience, where have

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we been changed? What we've been changed where people have made a long term relational

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commitment in our lives. And that often starts with just one step and an

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openness to what's right in front of us, really. And I

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think it's easier than people think than what we fear.

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Yes. Like you and I having a conversation, we find things

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in common. Our prefrontal cortex is predisposed

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to to find that connection, that relational capacity, but sometimes when

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we think, oh, no. They are maybe in a different economic status or they

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don't have a job. Somehow, we've gotta fix or we we freeze up.

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That's the amygdala talking, and we can actually relate well.

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But if we could only human to human like Jesus did with the

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Samaritan woman or the the the high officials to

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the disciples, he was human to human no matter their

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status, but could we relate? And we have to address that

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fear that prevents us from actually being able to

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to connect in a meaningful way, but it's easier. It's accessible.

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People actually can do that. Right. But we have to reframe.

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I have to pay attention. Where is fear setting in when I'm sitting in

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front of a person. Is there fear? Because that actually is gonna inhibit my

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ability to have a meaningful connection

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regardless of if they wanna talk to me or not. It's not about forcing a

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relationship. That's right. It's about the posture. People know

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when they're a project or when they're a friend to be with.

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Absolutely. And I think our nature, again,

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because we do at our core want to alleviate pain and

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suffering, our nature is to go to fix, particularly

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if we're in a position where we have resources and we're compelled to help and

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all of that. And yet, as you say, Wendy,

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sometimes our best approach is just taking time

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and creating space to listen. Yeah. It's that withness.

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It's not about fixing. And I think sometimes we wanna

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ease their discomfort because, actually, we're discomforted by

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it. We want that we want that discomfort, that that that pain to

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go away. We don't wanna see that suffering because we can't handle

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that. It's very true. It's hard to set, and and we understand this

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intuitively, right, because we've been through our own grief, and we've gone through

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grief with others. You know, when there's a death, it's really hard to sit

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with that. Right? But presence is mostly what people need. And

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so, again, I think it's like you said, when there's that fear, it's like,

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what can I go back to that's relatable about being human? And I and

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I also think fixing trying to fix things is

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different than lightening someone's load. So what do what do

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friends do? We don't go around fixing each other. But we do think about

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how can I lighten somebody's load right now? Yes. And, again, that's just

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a way to simply lean in and take a next step. It's

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not about erasing everything that's here that's contributing it

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in from an individual level or systemic level. That's a recipe for

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paralysis. But if we can start to say, how can I lighten alone?

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Is there anything I can do to come alongside? Is there a way that I

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can listen and learn? Then what happens is my next step

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starts to be unveiled. And and that's

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where I love the utilization of the care portal care

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sharing technology because that's where social workers and case workers

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who are walking alongside, and they know where the needs are in the

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community. They're working with them in their distress, and they're

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able to work with and we train the social workers to work with the

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families and the youth and the the vulnerable sector and saying, what

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are those things that you need to lighten your load to

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that aren't being resourced anywhere else, but if you could have a

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relational intervention, what would that look like? And they get creative

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together, and that's where those stories come up that that we put onto our website

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with through the care portal, and that's how churches can meaningful so we take

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that guesswork out, and, again, we keep having to push

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back, against that transactional understanding. Oh, if I only

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get that bed and and we just, like, drop it off and go. No. Actually,

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this is a connection point. They've said yes to community when they put that their

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story out there. They've said yes. I'm I'm willing to have that

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meaningful connection, and this is simply a

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tool to help bridge that. Now you've been working with Care Portal.

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We've been working with Care Portal, and you've developed this amazing

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cope experience, cost of poverty experience. I can't wait to I think we got a

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segue there because we're actually good news, Canada. We're

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we just got it through customs, and we're bringing it to Canada. But can you

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tell us about this cope cost of poverty experience that you have

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developed with your team? Yeah. So I did mention the

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first part of our mission is to equip groups to rethink poverty through that

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human lens. And so one of the I we have

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found one of the most effective ways to do that is by

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inviting people into the stories of others. And so

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the other thing that, Wendy, I know Care Impact creates a lot of

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resources and training and equipping tools for churches and community groups.

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And so what we understand then in this space about

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adult learning, you know, how we do learn and change and grow

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and become more effective is we have to

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immerse ourselves. It has the information has to be relevant.

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It's gotta be more than stuck in the head. We've gotta embrace it emotionally,

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and we've gotta be able to apply it. And so that's why I think cope

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has been so effective is that it is a simulation, and so it

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it is a 2 and a half hour experience that invites

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people to take on the role of families much

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like families in their community that are navigating poverty day in, day

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out, and to put themselves in the shoes of their

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circumstances and to make some decisions about how they think they

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may navigate those circumstances. And we don't just leave it there at the

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simulation, so we simulate 1 month in the life of those families,

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broken down into, you know, 4 weeks. But we don't stop there,

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then we have a conversation about, you know, what insights did

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this give you and, what does this mean for us

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both individually and collectively. And so what that

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experience is like is we've actually interviewed families

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all across the United States now. We started with a group of families in Ohio,

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and then we recently updated this experience to interview families all

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across the United States to just hear their stories in

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their own words about kinda some of their presenting

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challenges, about their family dynamics, about the

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way in which they told their own story or kind of made sense

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of their own story. And so what it does is it gives us a chance

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to think about poverty through the lens of that individual, but to also

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see what the community system looks like and and where the

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community system, inclusive of the local church, is an asset and an

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ally to families that are navigating these hard times and where

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there may be barriers that collectively we could come together, to

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resolve. Well, and that's what I appreciated about the COPE experience. The church was at

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the table. They were a literal table there, a presence there, and we're really

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it really drives on the point of collective impact that there you're

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right. We try to simplify, poverty that we just need a

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job table, right, or we just need an whatever social

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services table, and then, like, they should fix it. And yet

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you're brought into this immersive experience, and there's a variety. Just

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like a community, it's represented there, and people in these roles

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that you were needing to interact with. And when I went through it,

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now I've walked with a lot of people in poverty. I am that foster and

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adoptive mom that it's not new to me. I have worked with

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my husband worked with the incarcerated. I have worked with anti human trafficking,

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and yet when I put myself in that immersive experience,

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Marlo, I'm not proud of this, but I tried kidnapping

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my virtual daughter so that I could keep my rent

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and that I could keep everybody safe because I had one job. I wanted to

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keep everybody together. And that mama bear instinct, I'm

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like, woah. I know the rules. I I work with social

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services, and yet it really simulated that, and it made me, like,

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what are my choices? And and it it it created that

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dynamic, and not everybody had that same experience. But for me, I just, like,

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actually, this becomes a viable option right now.

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And and then we went into a debrief, and we could share about those

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experiences. It was really powerful to hear and and to kinda drop

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that vulnerability curtain, I think, is so necessary

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within the community, within the church that we could talk

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about it, that it's not just about pathologizing those

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going through these actual situations, but what was going

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on? What were the barriers? What were those blind spots that were like, oh my

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goodness. I can't believe I held on to this. We don't know what we don't

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know. Right? It's at Johari's window, and it really helps

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people understand a little bit better. It's not gonna be

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everything, but it puts us on that pathway, and we're so excited

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to bring that to Canada. You are training one of our staff, and we're

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hoping to have more staff across Canada and a kit that is being prepared

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here, and we're so excited to bring it here that we could actually go

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into different cities, different churches, different organizations.

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Why? Not just so that they have this poverty experience

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debut, but it's like this can be a stepping stone,

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a catalyst for being that human to

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human, being that relational presence in community. And so,

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yeah, we're excited that you are letting it come to Canada,

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first time over the border, and it's faith inclusive. It really

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drives some of the point of care portal, and we couldn't be more excited

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to partner with your team, you and your team, to have

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this experience up in Canada. Well, thank you. We're excited

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to learn with you. And just to affirm your experience,

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Wendy, for your audience, I would imagine that,

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there would be a number of people that could attend or be invited to

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or attend this experience that come from a whole

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spectrum of lived experiences. And so you might have thought, like you said, I am

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immersed in this. I know this. And so we can be proximate, but,

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again, not necessarily see through certain eyes, and everybody's experience

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is unique. And so, whether you're proximate or

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you're isolated or we've even had some, individuals that have grown

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up in poverty and have some lived experiences, and they

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got some insight as well. Maybe they had a kind of a bigger picture

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view of what was maybe driving certain factors for their own

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family, or they were in the role of someone that may have may have

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had different kinds of dynamics. And so no matter where your starting point

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is, I think if you come open, there's something here for you. I'm

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just gonna jump in here as someone listening to this conversation

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to remind our listeners that we have our Decadent Care

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Summit coming up where we are actually running a cope on the Saturday

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morning. So if you wanna get in on that, you wanna get in on that

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very quickly because there's limited seating, so you wanna head over to

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decadentcare. C a and register. Make sure you're in for that.

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Yeah. And it's gonna be a lot of fun. Only a 120 spots. So if

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there is still a spot, I would say get that weekend pass. We're giving it

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to a 120 people for the weekend pass for decadent care.

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So sign up at decadentcare.ca and be part of this

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immersive experience. And not only that, we're gonna follow that up with

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actual opportunities to serve the community. So people will be put into

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teams and be able to respond to real care portal needs across

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the city. Gonna be working in small little teams and gonna be

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blessing families across the city of Winnipeg as

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in a way for people to experience what it could look like in their

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cities, in their communities, and so we want to invite you

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warmly into the city of Winnipeg for this experience.

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For those of you that cannot be part of this experience but do wanna,

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experience it in their your own city or in your church or

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organization, if you wanna catalyze people in your community to

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talk about poverty, experience it in a new way, we invite you

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to contact us. Go to our website or or contact us at

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info at careimpact.ca. We'd be happy to to

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bring our team to you and, serve you in this way.

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Marla, let's talk about the local church. What what are some

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words of encouragement or some advice that you would give for local

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churches who are wanting to make an impact, wanting to grow in their

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capacity, to walk alongside those

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experiencing poverty? Yeah. I think the

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encouragement I would like to give the local church is that

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one of the strengths, you know, I had the great privilege of growing up in

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a local church and when I think about how formative

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that that was for me and the way that the local

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church helped me grow in my understanding of being a

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disciple of Christ, I didn't think about, or I

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don't think about great youth programming or an awesome

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children's choir or the Christmas event. You know? Those

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are just containers. And so my

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encouragement to the local church, I think a lot of times we apply this program

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mentality poverty alleviation. You know, we've gotta come up with some

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program or 10 different programs or and

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there's some great programs out there and they can be great

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facilitators or containers. But the

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question I think local churches have to ask themselves are,

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more closely aligned with the strength that they have, which is

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relationship. And so what context do we have?

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Where are places where we could hang out with people that we don't

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normally get to hang out with in our community? And, you know,

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maybe that's through our partnership with Care Impact and Care Portal that that gives us

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a proxy to hang out with people or meet people we don't normally get to

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meet, or maybe it's a basketball court,

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you know, in our parking lot, or maybe it's a grill that we can fire

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up and, you know, grow some hot dogs on the weekends. I don't know if

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you guys grow hot dogs on the weekends. I can't believe that. But

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I I think we're oftentimes asking the wrong questions.

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It's not what's the program we need to develop to fight poverty. It's like,

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where are the places where we can meet people? Yeah.

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And then just be willing to show up and be

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willing for God to nudge you in that one next step.

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And that may be individually, something I'm being drawn to in a

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one next step. Maybe maybe I do need to be open to a relationship that

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could foster and grow. And maybe it's that one next step

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corporately. You know, something that we learn or hear that we can partner on

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as a church to bring power and

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community. So that would be my encouragement to the local

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church. Don't create any unnecessary barriers or think that

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you have to be on your own or the hero. Yeah. Just look for places

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you can show up because the community desperately needs you and the hope of Christ.

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Well, that smell is a lot like Jesus.

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Showing up at the well, at the lake, in a fishing

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boat, in the places where people hang.

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And if you are a community leader or a person

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sitting in the church saying, how can I make a difference? How can I actually

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make a difference? It might be easier than you think. And

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yet, also in Canada, we it might be more difficult than we think because people

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don't know how to people well. It's countercultural at this point

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often to to sit with people, and let us

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know. We're having amazing conversations with leaders from

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across Canada, different cities that are paying attention to a care portal could do

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because we can help take the guesswork out of that compassion and say, actually, here

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are some opportunities. And now pour yourself rather than looking for programs

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and and projects. Pour yourself into these relationships.

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We're gonna bring it on a Monday morning, a Thursday evening, a Saturday

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afternoon. This isn't a program. These are people to

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walk with. They're inviting you in, and these are

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opportunities to do so. But you're right. It might that

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well might be a basketball court, and so it might

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be easier than we actually think. Well, Marlo, I am so

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excited that we can journey this with you. I'm so appreciative of

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the the resource of the the cost of poverty experience that we get

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to now share with Canada. We wanna hold it with a lot of integrity,

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the the the work that you've put into it, and we know

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that this experience will help, that conversation

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will help move the needle along for the church to be in these

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places in meaningful relational, humble

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ways, and we wanna thank you for 18 years ago

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saying yes to think tank to doing this venture,

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and for continuing it on with the resources. We can't wait for what god is

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gonna do in the future. Thank you so much, Wendy.

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