Episode 19

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20th Jun 2025

Messy Advice… | Why Is Loving My Neighbour So Awkward?



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Description

Today's question: "Every time I try to reach out to someone, I overthink everything. I worry they'll find it weird or that I'm being too much. How do I care without spiralling into anxiety or self-doubt?"

Your messy adviser, Johan, dives into the awkward art of loving your neighbour when anxiety threatens to turn every act of kindness into a social escape room. Through relatable stories—think panicking over pasta or endlessly drafting that encouraging text—this conversation shines a curious light on why caring for others so often feels so complicated. With stats, biblical wisdom, and plenty of good-natured humour, Johan reminds us that moments of awkwardness, hesitation, and messy effort might just be part of holy care. Whether your summer’s filled with neighbourhood waves or anxiety-fuelled “maybe next times,” you’ll find a dose of encouragement to keep showing up as your delightfully imperfect self.

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About the Podcast

Neighbourly (formerly Journey With Care)
Equipping communities and the Church to love neighbours well
Neighbourly is a warm, story-driven podcast hosted by Shannon Steeves. Every other week, Shannon invites guests to share real stories of ordinary people offering extraordinary care. On alternating weeks, Johan Heinrichs hosts Neighbourly Headlines, short episodes highlighting Canadian stories of neighbours stepping up in extraordinary ways. Together, these episodes leave you encouraged and equipped with one simple step you can carry into your own life.
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