Episode 19

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20th Jun 2025

Messy Advice… | Why Is Loving My Neighbour So Awkward?



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Description

Today's question: "Every time I try to reach out to someone, I overthink everything. I worry they'll find it weird or that I'm being too much. How do I care without spiralling into anxiety or self-doubt?"

Your messy adviser, Johan, dives into the awkward art of loving your neighbour when anxiety threatens to turn every act of kindness into a social escape room. Through relatable stories—think panicking over pasta or endlessly drafting that encouraging text—this conversation shines a curious light on why caring for others so often feels so complicated. With stats, biblical wisdom, and plenty of good-natured humour, Johan reminds us that moments of awkwardness, hesitation, and messy effort might just be part of holy care. Whether your summer’s filled with neighbourhood waves or anxiety-fuelled “maybe next times,” you’ll find a dose of encouragement to keep showing up as your delightfully imperfect self.

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Neighbourly: Real Stories of Care and Community
Equipping communities and the church to love neighbours well
Neighbourly is a warm, story-driven podcast hosted by Shannon Steeves. Every two weeks, Shannon sits down with a guest to share honest stories of ordinary people offering extraordinary care.
Each episode also includes a short Neighbourly Headlines reflection, highlighting a Canadian story of neighbours showing up in meaningful ways.
You’ll leave encouraged, grounded, and equipped with one simple step you can carry into your own life.
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About your hosts

Shannon Steeves

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Johan Heinrichs

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Johan is a passionate and creative professional who brings his skills to bear as a Content Development Specialist at CareImpact. He is the prodcer of the podcast "Journey With Care" and contributes to the development of CareImpact Academy and CareImpact's prayer initiative. Johan is dedicated to producing content that helps people share their stories and deepen their faith in Jesus.

In addition to his work at CareImpact, Johan is an author, worship leader, and singer/songwriter. He is the founder of Ark, a small podcast business that partners with clients to produce high-quality podcasts that engage and inspire their audiences.

When he's not working, Johan cherishes spending time with his family. He and his wife Corrie are blessed with four amazing kids - Danika, Eli, Caitlin, and Luke - with whom he enjoys playing hockey video games, disc golfing, and taking long summer walks and hikes in the park.